Chapter 1: Unexpected

I was born on 12 jan 1983 but on my school.certificate its 12 june 1983. I was an an unexpected female child in family.
My father is eldest son in family and he already has a daughter named renu.

As in india,  each family wants a boy or male child. Having a boy child brings you security that he will stay with parents then they grow up in old age. My parents was already having a girl and i born after 5 year after my elder sister renu.
I feel is not parents who feel sad as having a female child bit its actually society who forcefully realise parents  that its very pity as they are having a girl child.
When a boy child is born to parents, every one ask for party, feel them overwhelmed and realise that now they their heir.
But when a female child born, everybody makes a parents realise that its a great responsibility that god has given to them. Oneday girl will have to left their parent due to marriage and they have to live alone.
I personally feel every parents feel happy after having baby , no matter wheather its a girl or boy, but its a society who forcefully tell them the difference.
I may be the unexpected girl child  to my family but my parents welcomed me from bottom of theor heart.


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